tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6270306578933066732.post4719407436857520307..comments2024-01-31T09:36:11.225-05:00Comments on Two Spirits - One Halle: Changing Teams?Hallehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03847654451426257182noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6270306578933066732.post-65387967089620276272012-03-10T12:05:26.051-05:002012-03-10T12:05:26.051-05:00Dear Petra how I love your rambles. :-)
was there...Dear Petra how I love your rambles. :-)<br /><br /><i>was there a moment when you knew you were gay?".<br /><br />His response - "I am not sure that I am or that it matters. When I met X I fell in love. Orientation subordinated itself to that truthâ </i><br /><br />As an addendum perhaps to this post and in response to you dear Petra, I have realized that when C and I do have a chance Hallehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03847654451426257182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6270306578933066732.post-66908305764970513512012-03-10T08:36:12.083-05:002012-03-10T08:36:12.083-05:00So much to comment on here, and about time I did y...So much to comment on here, and about time I did yes? So ....<br /><br />One of my oldest friends is one half of a gay couple. I knew his partner slightly before they met through intersecting social circles as the long time boyfriend of a female friend of mine. He was easy and comfy in his hetero life.<br /><br />That relationship ended, and a couple of years later he was in a committed Petra Bellejambeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15325233285694315036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6270306578933066732.post-32730103903571879882012-02-22T03:31:05.992-05:002012-02-22T03:31:05.992-05:00To some extent we all tend to get to that crossroa...To some extent we all tend to get to that crossroads in one or another fashion. The one, where virtual expression feels more authentic because it provides expression of a truth about us that is otherwise buried. <br /><br />I have long found that it is really self love that I experience in that realm. And often what I experience as the other is just a reflection of our own desires.<br /><br />Kathryn Dumkehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16054997856180869508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6270306578933066732.post-35004816404939602122012-02-22T02:46:28.095-05:002012-02-22T02:46:28.095-05:00I think that instead of playing for a particular t...I think that instead of playing for a particular team, you seem to be more of a double agent.Leslie Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15373261212549008939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6270306578933066732.post-32915311541792705722012-02-21T17:29:22.030-05:002012-02-21T17:29:22.030-05:00Ariel, you are speaking for me too when you wrote ...Ariel, you are speaking for me too when you wrote "<i>When you can't have the real thing, virtual can be a darned good substitute -- better, I'd say, then dressing up.</i>"<br /><br />Having said that, when I wrote that I lament that I am not like Petra or Stana, it had two parts to it. I would love to interact with the world as myself. More to the point though, I wish Hallehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03847654451426257182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6270306578933066732.post-10432225830413736912012-02-21T16:11:30.566-05:002012-02-21T16:11:30.566-05:00I have some major disagreements with Stana's p...I have some major disagreements with Stana's post, which I shouldn't go into here, but since your referenced her post, I suppose some of that will come out.<br /><br />Before I get into it, I'm thinking you don't really want to be like Stana or Petra. Dressing up and interacting <i>as</i> a woman, but not being a woman, is not what you are about. At least I don't think so.<br Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com