tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6270306578933066732.post9186474769347799310..comments2024-01-31T09:36:11.225-05:00Comments on Two Spirits - One Halle: I Don't Want To Be A WomanHallehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03847654451426257182noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6270306578933066732.post-42527014335548297952011-08-05T06:27:36.438-04:002011-08-05T06:27:36.438-04:00Speaking unbidden indeed. I understand that so wel...Speaking unbidden indeed. I understand that so well. Do not be surprised or upset by how powerful this side of you can be after hiding for so long. It is like a chamber under high pressure; it needs a release. If you do want to keep everything else you have worked for and value, channel that release in a positive way Mirame. <br /><br />All the best in your efforts. <br /><br />Email me if you Hallehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03847654451426257182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6270306578933066732.post-72121931445421736542011-08-04T23:30:44.613-04:002011-08-04T23:30:44.613-04:00There are some that say
that Mirame
should...There are some that say<br /> that Mirame<br /> should not exist.<br /> Abomination!<br />A lifetime hidden<br /> yet now, unbidden,<br /> she speaks.Miramehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16592177776749512227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6270306578933066732.post-48476565786652071622011-08-03T14:55:38.672-04:002011-08-03T14:55:38.672-04:00Mirame, it seems you have done the most important ...Mirame, it seems you have done the most important thing. You have accepted that a part of you really is feminine. <br /><br />What I have found is knowing and then cultivating that social and creative nature my female side brings helps me to shoo away the self-hatred, that feeling of being stunted by being male. Being male does not have to mean shunning those important qualities. Ditch as much ofHallehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03847654451426257182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6270306578933066732.post-82362813107447871102011-07-31T16:02:21.031-04:002011-07-31T16:02:21.031-04:00I'm in a very similar space as you are Halle. ...I'm in a very similar space as you are Halle. I call my inner self Mirame - Spanish for "see me" - see who I am. All my life my transgender nature has affected me - stunting my growth as a person and socially because I could never react 'correctly' to social situations. I've suppressed Mirame - and suffered the consequences of depression and social isolation. Not to the Miramehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16592177776749512227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6270306578933066732.post-12397892924153353092011-07-29T15:44:37.045-04:002011-07-29T15:44:37.045-04:00Well said Tina. Thank you.Well said Tina. Thank you.Hallehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03847654451426257182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6270306578933066732.post-43285871874459295072011-07-29T15:29:33.260-04:002011-07-29T15:29:33.260-04:00For me it's never been about BECOMING...it'...For me it's never been about BECOMING...it's about BEING....and LIVING.<br /><br />PeaceTinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05122571667351822132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6270306578933066732.post-61690290751764287862011-07-28T20:00:15.407-04:002011-07-28T20:00:15.407-04:00Hmm, if you have given all other possible courses ...Hmm, if you have given all other possible courses a fair try and the pain continues, then there does come a point where becoming anatomically female is your goal, and the statement applies.Hallehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03847654451426257182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6270306578933066732.post-38057882488005344532011-07-28T19:12:20.017-04:002011-07-28T19:12:20.017-04:00It might have been careful use of language, if by ...It might have been careful use of language, if by <i>female</i> the commenter meant "anatomically female," which is what it usually means.<br /><br />But I understand what you're saying. It's not about wanting something. It's about making the pain stop.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com